You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#21 - Leave emotional addiction in your relationship behind w/ Star Jesse Taylor

This episode is a masterclass of how to shift out of the compulsive patterns of relationship anxiety and ROCD and switching to acting and living from our values. In this episode we discuss: What are compulsions and...
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#20 - 6 reasons I felt discontent in my relationship

In today’s episode, I share 6 reasons why I felt discontent in my relationship—6 ā€˜blockers’ of content (peaceful happiness) in my relationship. I also share 6 practices that have helped me reduce discontent, and...
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#19 - Are We Too Attached to Our Attachment Style? w/ Stephanie Rigg

In this episode I sit down with Stephanie Rigg to talk about attachment and how our attachment styles can affect how we show up in our relationships. We cover: an overview of the four different attachment...
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#18 - How to Make Space for Our Anxious Parts w/ Alex of @forloveweheal

In this episode, I sit down with Alex Bishop of @forloveweheal. He’s a registered counsellor who helps others with a wide range of personal and relational challenges work towards a more fulfilling loving relationship...
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#17 - ā€œI’m not sure if I’m ā€˜in love’ with my partner. I just ā€˜love’ them…is that enough?ā€

In this episode, I address questions like: ā€œDid I fall out love with my partner?ā€ ā€œWhat if I feel love toward my partner, but don’t feel IN LOVE with my partner?ā€ ā€œWhat if we fall out of love in the future…then...
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#16 - Let’s Talk Somatics + Sex! w/ Marina, the Compassionate Somatic Coach

TW: this episode mentions sexual assault and rape. In this episode I sit down with Marina, the Compassionate Somatic Coach to talk about somatic work (working with the body) and how our body affects how we show up...
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#15 - Is Resistance Blocking You From Healing Relationship Anxiety/ROCD? w/ Kiyomi LeFleur of Awaken Into Love

In this episode, I sit down with Relationship OCD expert and founder of Awaken Into Love, Kiyomi LaFleur, to talk about resistance and how it shows up in our journey to heal relationship anxiety/ROCD. We cover: three...
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#14 - ā€œIs it possible to move past ā€˜the ick’ in my relationship?ā€

This week I answer the question ā€œis it possible to move past ā€˜the ick’ in my relationship?ā€ ā€˜The ick’ being moments of being turned off, disgusted, or feeling like something your partner does is cringe-y. I...
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#13 - "How do I deal with negative comments from friends/family about my relationship?"

This week, I answer the question ā€œHow do I deal with negative comments from friends/family about my relationship?ā€ I cover: Who may take family and friends’ comments more seriously and why Things to keep in mind when...
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#12 - Being Single While in Partnership w/ Natalie Kennedy of @anxiouslovecoach

Can you be single and in a partnership at the same time?! I sit down with Natalie Kennedy of @AnxiousLoveCoach to discuss how to embrace your independence while in a relationship. We discuss: what it means to ā€œbe...
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#11 - Instead of Everything Being 50/50 in your Relationship, Try This… w/ Nate Klemp

In this episode I sat down with author Nate Klemp to talk about a new approach to relationships and marriage (as seen in his book The 80/80 Marriage) and how to bring more acceptance and mindfulness to your...
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#10 - We Can’t Dismantle Relationship Anxiety Unless We Do THIS… w/ Chelsea Horton of @healing.embodied

Chelsea Horton is a Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and the founder of Healing Embodied. She has experienced anxiety, shame, and religious trauma and has dedicated the last 9 years of her life unlearning this...
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