You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#29 - Is it wrong to find someone else besides your partner attractive?

Is it wrong to find someone else besides your partner attractive? In today’s episode, I explore: the impacts of religion and romanticism on the message of “only having eyes for our partner” the shame and guilt that...
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#28 - “I feel silly getting hung up on my partner’s looks”

Have you ever nitpicked your partner’s physical appearance and felt so guilty for it? You are NOT ALONE! In this episode I address a community-submitted topic: hyper-fixation on “small, superficial, or physical traits...
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#27 Emotional Wounding’s Affect on Relationships w/ Dr. Russell Kennedy

In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Russell Kennedy, author of award-winning book Anxiety Rx. We talk about how our emotional wounding (which he calls alarm) affects anxiety and what to do about it. We cover: the...
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#26 - did relationship anxiety visit when I got engaged?

In Part 2 I’m sharing the behind the scenes of getting engaged and how I felt during and after. I answer community questions like “did you expect it?” “were you anxious during or after?” and “did you feel disappointed...
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#25 - How To Know You’re “Ready” to Get Engaged

ICYMI — I’m engaged! In this episode, I’m answering community questions like “how do you know you’re ready to get engaged?” + “what did your pre-engagement discussions look like?” I also share more about my own...
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#24 - 5 Books That Changed The Way I View Love + Relationships

This week I share 5 books that have changed my life and the way I view love and relationships. Each book has meant so much to me and I dive into some of my favorite concepts + quotes from each book. I cover: Mating in...
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#23 - The “should’s” + pressures of love in our 30’s w/ Emma Wilson, Turning 30 Coach

In this episode, I got a chance to speak with Emma Wilson, the Turning 30 Coach about how relationship anxiety can be impacted as we near/are in our 30’s. We cover: the instruction manuals we each create that dictate...
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#22 - My journey towards self-love

This is a vulnerable episode where I share my experiences and insights on the journey towards self-love, what I’ve changed my mind on when it comes to self love, and my intentions for practicing self-love moving...
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#21 - Leave emotional addiction in your relationship behind w/ Star Jesse Taylor

This episode is a masterclass of how to shift out of the compulsive patterns of relationship anxiety and ROCD and switching to acting and living from our values. In this episode we discuss: What are compulsions and...
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#20 - 6 reasons I felt discontent in my relationship

In today’s episode, I share 6 reasons why I felt discontent in my relationship—6 ‘blockers’ of content (peaceful happiness) in my relationship. I also share 6 practices that have helped me reduce discontent, and...
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#19 - Are We Too Attached to Our Attachment Style? w/ Stephanie Rigg

In this episode I sit down with Stephanie Rigg to talk about attachment and how our attachment styles can affect how we show up in our relationships. We cover: an overview of the four different attachment...
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#18 - How to Make Space for Our Anxious Parts w/ Alex of @forloveweheal

In this episode, I sit down with Alex Bishop of @forloveweheal. He’s a registered counsellor who helps others with a wide range of personal and relational challenges work towards a more fulfilling loving relationship...
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