You Love & You Learn Podcast

You Love & You Learn Podcast

Hosted by: Sarah Yudkin

Welcome to the You Love and You Learn podcast, the place to learn about all things love, relationships, relationship anxiety, and deconstructing the one-size-fits-all narrative of what it means to be in a happy...

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#38 - What Does it Mean to be Two-Feet-In a Relationship?

In this episode I answer a question from a You Love and You Learn community member: “you’ve mentioned something along the lines of ‘choosing to be all in and not one foot in, one foot out’ - I find myself feeling one...
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#37 - Is your Relationship Healthy? w/ Dr. Molly Burrets

Have you ever questioned if your relationship is healthy or healthy “enough”? In this conversation with Dr. Molly Burrets we explore: what it means to be in a healthy relationship how to parse out what advice to...
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#36 - Communication, Conflict, and Connection w/ Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman

Strengthening communication, navigating conflict, and deepening connection are 3 important pillars of a healthy relationship. I got the chance to chat with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman of @meetthefreemans to explore...
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#35 - Is Your Relationship Boring, or Are You?

Do relationships inevitably become boring after the “honeymoon phase” ends? If we’re feeling bored in our relationship—is that a sign something is wrong? I explore these questions and how to strike a balance between...
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#34 - Becoming More Securely Attached w/ Elizabeth Gillette

With all the buzz of attachment theory, it’s easy to think being securely attached is “better” and being insecurely attached is “worse.” But what if we were able to shift this perspective and bring a kinder, gentler...
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#33 - How to Navigate Relationship (& Life) Transitions w/ Ela Topcuoglu

Transitions and change can bring up a lot of emotion. Whether it’s moving in together, getting engaged, moving to a new city (or country), or changing jobs…there are stages we go through in times of transition. In...
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#32 - “Is it relationship anxiety…or are we incompatible?”

“Is it relationship anxiety…or are we incompatible?” is the #1 question I am asked as a relationship anxiety coach. In this episode, I share 2 frameworks to consider when answering this question, why answering this...
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#31 - 9 Tools to Help You Navigate Relationships (& Life)

Relationship anxiety has so many parallels with what it means to be human. It’s an invitation to lean into uncertainty, discomfort, and change. It’s an invitation to build more self-trust, acceptance, and contentment...
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#30 – Help! I Can’t Stop Nitpicking My Partner w/ Ivy Miller

Have you ever judged your partner for making small mistakes like leaving their towel on the floor, or not doing something the way you asked? It doesn’t feel great (I’ve been there, too). In today’s episode, I sat down...
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#29 - Is it wrong to find someone else besides your partner attractive?

Is it wrong to find someone else besides your partner attractive? In today’s episode, I explore: the impacts of religion and romanticism on the message of “only having eyes for our partner” the shame and guilt that...
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#28 - “I feel silly getting hung up on my partner’s looks”

Have you ever nitpicked your partner’s physical appearance and felt so guilty for it? You are NOT ALONE! In this episode I address a community-submitted topic: hyper-fixation on “small, superficial, or physical traits...
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#27 Emotional Wounding’s Affect on Relationships w/ Dr. Russell Kennedy

In this episode, I sat down with Dr. Russell Kennedy, author of award-winning book Anxiety Rx. We talk about how our emotional wounding (which he calls alarm) affects anxiety and what to do about it. We cover: the...
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